Book Review: Emails to a Wayward College Student
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Emails to a Wayward College Student, by Neil Giblin, $3.99. Kindle. 53 pages.
Reviewed by Randall S. Hansen, Ph.D.
As a former college professor, I am always looking for books that assist those students who get to college and struggle. These students typically are the ones attending college because it’s what is expected after high school; the ones who suddenly find themselves independent and with a lot of time on their hands and seemingly no real responsibilities.
Emails to a Wayward College Student is not for every struggling — or wayward — college student; but the advice Neil Giblin offers is heartfelt — and comes directly from a very successful adult who struggled when he attended college — taking more than five years to complete his undergraduate degree. The author shares his advice in a series of emails he sent over the course of the summer to a friend’s child who was struggling to succeed in college.
Giblin shares how he scoffed at a professor who told students at a freshman orientation that “college is your job and if you put in a full 40 hours of study a week … week in and week out … in all likelihood you will do quite well.” I should note that this type of speech is indeed standard fare at first-year student orientations.
While the emails do sometimes stray off the subject (such as a discussion on developing a list of the author’s favorite jazz songs), the author keeps the advice — and momentum — going. In fact, his emails sound a bit like a coach trying to inspire his team to greater success. Giblin also peppers his emails with a fairly large reading list, many a bit too far in left-field for a wayward student. I was expecting, perhaps, Dick Bolle’s classic, What Color is Your Parachute?, not The Hero With a Thousand Faces.
One of my favorite of Giblin’s stories is a classic tale of too many college students; his father suggested he major in business, and with no other clue otherwise, that is what he did — and he hated it and had no interest in it, which in part led to his weak class attendance, poor grades, and overall bad attitude. It wasn’t until he found a major that fit his interests that he began to excel in college.
The bulk of the book focuses on Giblin’s 12 Reminders for a Wayward College Student:
- Don’t delude yourself.
- Don’t dumb yourself down.
- Don’t dither.
- Don’t doubt yourself.
- Don’t ignore your parents or siblings.
- Do stuff that interests you.
- Do take advantage of learning opportunities.
- Do fantasize about the future.
- Do think about the impact you have on others.
- Do make strong, lasting friendships with people who make you better.
- Do (actively) work as improving yourself-control.
Don’t distort reality.
Final Thoughts on Emails to a Wayward College Student
One of Giblin’s final pieces of advice — and one I stressed to my students (and for which I still see dividends today) — is that college students should NOT be afraid to get to know their professors. He states, “Remember a professor can also be your friend, in some cases life-long friends. I still meet one of my English professors for dinner every once in a while… and he still gladly shares his wisdom and wit.” (I do my sharing on Facebook!)
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